June 28, 2011
When you feel like quitting
From the Pulpit Harry Hartman
announced radio broadcasts for the Major League baseball Cincinnati Reds in
the 1930s. He is believed to be the first broadcaster to announce a home run
with, “Going, going, gone!” Have you ever wanted
to be gone, to quit, to chuck the whole thing? Sometimes you just feel like
quitting. You reach the point where you say, “I’m tired of the whole thing.
I quit.” This can happen in your marriage, your work, your schooling, or
with a project you are working on. So, what should you do when you feel like
quitting? First, keep pressing
on. Not every day of your marriage will be heavenly bliss. But most days of
your marriage will be satisfying, so keep on building a loving marriage. No
one has the perfect job. Every job has some bad parts to it. But, at times,
work can be fulfilling, so keep on working. When you feel tired,
discouraged, and ready to give up, keep pressing on. Second, crash
through your quitting points. A quitting point is when you first begin to
entertain thoughts of quitting. You feel weary and discouraged. You aren’t
sure if your efforts are accomplishing anything. You start thinking about
giving up, quitting. You have to break through these quitting points,
otherwise, you never will develop follow-through in your life. Of course, the big
question is, How do you crash through your quitting points? The answer is
found in a wonderful Bible word, “perseverance.” This word does not mean you
passively endure your struggles or that you grin and bear it. Rather, this
great word means the determination to keep on going. How does a person
lay hold of this wonderful quality? The Bible shows us in James 1:3, “The
testing of your faith develops perseverance.” How do you develop
perseverance? By going through tough times. Tough times in our lives build a
tenacious, fighting spirit in us. Third, stay aware of
the middle period. You have passed the period of initial surprise, thrill,
and excitement. The sizzle of the new has worn off. You realize there still
is a lot of hard work to be done. Difficulties come. Obstacles arise. You
are feeling tired. The enthusiasm that used to carry you over these hurdles
has waned. This is what I mean by the middle period. Our tendency during
this middle period is to give up too soon. Are you in the middle period in
some area of your life? Your schooling? Your marriage? Your job? Your
weight-loss program? When you are in the
middle period what you need is the strength to keep on going. That strength
comes from a relationship with Jesus. The writer of Hebrews 12 said, “Run
the race with perseverance, looking to Jesus, the author and finisher of our
faith.” He provides the resolve and determination to keep going. Fourth, believe God
can bring something good out of your struggles. You don’t have to figure out
how God will bring good, you just have to stay on the journey with Him and
watch Him work. The greatest Bible promise you will ever read is found in
Romans 8:28: “We know that in all things God works for the good of those who
love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” I pray God will use this precious promise to give you tenacity and persistence. You might be in the middle of a trial or carrying a huge burden. Perhaps you are shouldering some heavy responsibilities. Don’t quit. Keep going in the strength and hope only God can provide. Gary Hardin is pastor of Enon Grove Baptist Church in Cedar Bluff. He and his wife, Linda, live in Centre. Comments can be sent to: garyhardin@tds.net.
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